Dear Amanda,
I am in my 50′s with combination skin & in search of a recipe for facial & under eye moisturizer.
I’d also like to find a natural shampoo that won’t dry out my hair. I do not want to use sulfates which seems to be the choice ingredient on the market. I realize that there are many so called natural products out there I’d just like to try making my own.
Thank you for sharing your hard earned knowledge about chemical free living.
Be well
Bell
Bell,
For a facial moisturizer, I try to keep it as simple as possible. The multi-billion dollar cosmetics industry is built around the notion that your skin needs complicated and expensive products to look and feel good, and advertising can really convince us of that, but the truth is that your skin is an organ, just like your lungs and your liver, and if it is kept healthy, it will be soft and smooth. In my experience, the quickest way to rob your skin of its natural healthy state is to slather it with synthetic chemical concoctions. When I read the list of ingredients on a skincare product, I ask myself if I would be willing to apply this to my lungs or liver. If the answer is no, I leave it on the store shelf.
I have used simple oils to moisturize my body with great success, but for the thinner skin on your face, only the lightest of oils will do to avoid clogging pores. I have made a homemade concoction with jojoba oil (the oil that is closest in makeup to the natural oils in your skin) and other oils that are rejuvenating to the skin, like rose hip oil and sea buckthorn oil. You can find all of these oils at any health food store. Just fill a small bottle with an ounce of jojoba oil, and add just a little bit of the other oils, and shake. I don’t measure an exact recipe, I just mix up a bottle when I need to with the proportions being a little different every time, and it always works. You can add a few drops of essential oils, like rose or lavender (or both) for a nice fragrance, and both of those essential oils are very good for your skin.
When you wash your face, rinse and barely pat dry, leaving some water droplets on your face. Take a few drops of the oil in your palm, and rub it around with your fingertips to warm and thin the oil, then pat and lightly rub the oil into your face. You can use this around your eyes, too. The oil mixes with the water left on your face, sealing in that moisture. It will completely sink in and not feel oily at all in just a few minutes. Whether your skin is dry, oily, or both, using a light natural oil on the skin will balance it out over time, instead of stripping it.
If you want a store bought product, the absolute best thing that I have found in 20 years of trying is from the mail order company DHC. It is called “olive virgin oil”, and it is from the first ultra light pressing of organic olives, done before they press them harder to get the extra virgin olive oil that we cook with. This lovely light oil is the best moisturizer, for any skin type, and in the winter when the air is really dry you can layer it over a creamy moisturizer for extra protection, and it never feels oily. The price will seem high, but you only use a few drops at a time, and I have had a bottle last me for more than six months.
Natural Shampoo
As for shampoo, I have tried many so called “natural shampoos” on the market, and most of them contain sodium lauryl sulfate, which starts as coconut oil, but is so refined and processed that what is left is just a chemical, and possibly hazardous to your health. SLS makes for a lot of rich lather, but also strips your hair of its own oils, ultimately making it dry. When your hair is stripped, your scalp will automatically send out a lot of your natural oils to compensate, making your hair oily. This had been a perpetual cycle in my life, until I decided to get really radical and try the baking soda and vinegar method of cleaning your hair. What? I clean my kitchen sink with baking soda and vinegar! But amazingly, it really works. Here’s why—when you stop using harsh products that strip your hair and scalp, you are left with just plain clean hair, which is not oily or dry, it is just normal. All hair products leave a residue on your hair, which attracts and holds dirt, meaning that you have to shampoo frequently, which strips and dries hair even more. Then you need a conditioner, which leaves even more residue, and, well, you get the picture. But when your hair is just clean, with no residue, your scalp is able to regulate how much oil to release to keep your hair in normal condition. If you have been using conventional shampoos your whole life, it may take some time for your scalp to adjust to the new process, but the end result is hair with more body and texture and shine. I have written directions for the baking soda/vinegar method HERE.
Wishing you well,
Amanda